Dated a tranny (mahu) while in the US Army .
Stationed at Schofield Barracks in the late 1989. I was living off post. One night saw a car pull over with a flat tire, went to help, the woman driving asked me to drive her to Waikiki for her job. She was a hula dancer for the Don Ho show. I drove her, attended the show and met Don Ho. Took her home, she asked me out on a date. Went to the movies, back to my apartment. We were seriously making out, she stopped us and admitted to being trans. I had absolutely no idea…none. We dated for a few months.