came out to a friend who was trans, they detransitioned soon after and it makes me feel like shit
been a lurker on this sub forever and dont have anywhere else to rant about this so
im giga stealth since forever, live life as a cis man and never come out to people anymore because i just dont have to and dont want to (life is just easier like this)
I have a friend who has been out as a trans guy for years. last year we had a really deep talk, they were supposed to finally start hrt soon and were excited about it and i ended up coming out to them, idk maybe to show support or that they're not alone in this journey, we knew eachother for years now so i said fuck it might as well bond over this, brotherhood and shit
they genuinely were surprised and turns out throughout our whole friendship they had no idea and never questioned my gender in any way (hopefuel). it seemed like a sweet genuine moment between us at the time
we also often joked about how many people we knew suddenly detransitioned and friend said how they can't imagine ever detransitioning , after i came out we laughed how we're the only real ones left here now
fast forward to now, "i think the detransition beam got me bro". stopped hrt completely. immediately boobs out, doing makeup, using she her pronouns. told me her deadname too.
i came out and opened up for nothing. i dont feel good with her knowing now. never trust cissoids
i know its not that serious but. fuck me bro. im never coming out to someone again. i feel betrayed