r/4tran4

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What is a fetish, that you have?

Doesn’t have to be outrageous, so feel free to comment.

Mine is being respected and treated right. I’m so vanilla.

u/DiabolicalHope — 9 hours ago
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I’m convinced whoever started the rumor that trans men pass better with masculine makeup is a psyop to get you outed more.

The ONLY “makeup” that ((may)) actually make you look more masculine in certain circumstances is getting an eyelash wand and combing out your eyebrows a little or adding extra fullness to your mustache (if you have one)

Everything else is going to make you look dirty and like a girl cosplaying as a guy.

The average cis guy does not own a single piece of makeup, it’s an uncanny trend that every trans guy must go through to realize it doesn’t look how they were hoping it would look.

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u/ThrowRA-confusedsand — 7 hours ago
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but once the whole theyfab thing loses steam, it’ll be soooo cunty to use they/them pronouns

they/them pronouns are now equated with an alt-girl hyperfemininity. every theyfab ik is super obsessed with their wombynliness, alt fashion/hairstyles, and extravagant makeup. it’s like being more woman than other women. you reject the sneedy “woman” label to make yourself your own kind of woman+. and they get to feel so self-righteous about it, like “im one of the good ones! i’m totally a minority too! power to the people!,” make everyone do pronoun circles as some kind of activist ritual. and their boyfriends with mustaches have no problem with her occasional “we’re kinda queer” comments, because it’s obviously not “gay.”
give it like 10-15 years, maybe even sooner, and using they/them will be a throwback serve.

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u/Born-Competition-308 — 8 hours ago
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>Trans person says she’s afraid the government might start making camps for trannies

> Theyfab/theymab/cis person: “Ummmm could you stop fearmongering?!?!? 😡😡😡

u/Correct-Horse-Battry — 11 hours ago
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asked my psych for a syringe and he gave me a couple with these huge 22G 1.25" needles

u/Ms-Yash — 12 hours ago
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Having any of my friends/coworkers talk about trans people and I have to be really still and normal so they don’t find out

u/ThrowRA-confusedsand — 8 hours ago
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It's incredibly gay that ftm-ism is seen as a less "real" form of being trans

Like sometimes I'll just be talking to a cis or trans person and they'll say something that makes me think "ohh you just see it as a really extreme version of being butch/a tomboy."

I do sort of wonder why that is. Maybe because girls being GNC is more accepted in western society so there isn't that mental thing of "this is out of the ordinary and clearly for a reason".

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u/ijustwannanap — 11 hours ago
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would a bio artificial ovaries make me a wombayxn or would they define new criteria

Let's say someone comes up with external artificial ovaries or perhaps implants similar in architecture to an insulin pump with level monitoring and everything, do we win

u/hyelol — 10 hours ago
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I hate everyone here 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠 my heart is so small 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠 i cherish no one 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠 i dgaf 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠

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u/shake_bear_1003 — 9 hours ago
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it really did not hit me how anti trans this country is til recently.

People calling me slurs, anti trans protests, people denying me housing for being trans, anti trans newspapers at the grocery store I go to, people threatening me for being trans (and for being an "american jew")

This country is fucked.

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u/HealingRosy — 10 hours ago
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Can you recommend me a good movie to watch?

Possibly something that's very captivating and makes you feel strong emotions

u/magic_baobab — 11 hours ago
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my planned parenthood is so toxically hugboxy. i think i'm going to diy but stay with them as a fallback (i have insurance)

totally not user bruhstreet. totally didn't get banned from main by reddit for 3 days for forgetting i can't say something we ALL can say in a self derogatory way.

Anywho planned parenthood pissed me off today. the practitioner there treats me like i'm 12 years old when i'm a 19 year old young woman. (i thought i was past my probably intersex manlet lack of male development making people treat me like a child by literally transitioning into the gender where softer traits are less stigmatized, starting to girlmode and look like a mostly matured young woman, be decently passing but being as Mae from Night in The Woods said, sturdy, and by being a more confident person overall, but i guess not.)

My practitioner dodged some of my questions and didn't up my dose because they want to take it "one at a time" since i got on progesterone. and my practitioner was so toxically positive about how my testosterone levels were "almost there" and 'we're going to get this testosterone down!' spiritually and psyoply pumping her fist in front of her. i told her it's still 90 above what it should be when it's currently 164 testosterone and 112 E, (i totally am not the person that posted levels saying 'is gud?') and she sort of laughed it off. they didn't up my 100mg total a day spiro dose and 4 mg a day E (one in the morning, one in the afternoon) that i've had for 5 months, or prescribe me finasteride because "150mg and 6mg is the max", and, again, "lets take it one at a time!". she talked about upping my dose to three pills a day but i think she forgot to account for that when she ordered my prescription. they're so belittling it's asinine. they treat me like a scared dog. i'm doing my labs again to see if progesterone has done anything after 3 weeks of it ig but i'm pretty peeved.

why do #TotallyNotHugboxyTerfs work there, not listen to you, and semi purposefully hondose you?

u/GoThrowAwayThatAway — 9 hours ago
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How it feels being a fan of 90s rap but then youre listening and they say the most transphobic shit possible

u/ReminaBlueSFW — 12 hours ago
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Searched what people think on Ukraine here oh my god bruh

Found not that much old post and read comments y'all are insane kinda

Me living in first hand irl anti-ukraine propaganda factory and still not believing shit some of y'all say here

At least you're making me feel smart

u/tobacco1vanilla — 17 hours ago