Breast insecurity
Im truly sorry if this is the wrong place to post this, but I think that if I were to post it elsewhere, other women may not understand because they are familiar with being seen naked by men early on in relationships. Lately I've been feeling really upset and down about my breasts because I found out I have the tubular breast deformity. I always had a smallish chest growing up but I figured that they would grow with time and It would be fine, but it turns out this is just the way I am and theres nothing that can be done besides surgery.
I don't want to disappoint my future husband and It makes me very upset to think about it. I know that getting surgery to change it can be covered by insurance because its a deformity, but I don't know if its morally right to do... I feel like a fraud because when I wear a bra, I just look normal but when I take it off, the truth will be revealed.
Please give me advice on how to cope with this and how I should go about telling any men I attempt to date about this. I know it sounds stupid and immature but my biggest fear is that once were married and he sees them, he is just silently disgusted and cant bear to tell me. I know I should not feel insecure about things I cannot change, please pray for me.