Wife thinks it’s harmless flirting that she sent nudes to another man…
My wife 39 F went to a music festival with a guy she knew from HS. I 49 m wasn’t aware of it she said she went with one of her girlfriends.
I later found out by seeing texts in her phone that she went on a date with the guy they ended up later in the week having a sexually charged conversation and exchanged nudes then set up a time to see each other and she chickened out and ghosted him.
I confronted her about it and she said she saw him there and exchanged numbers. And that it was all harmless flirting. Yet the text messages showed that they had talked a week prior to going to the music festival.
She went and had her hair done the day of. Then the rest. I said it was a date because it was lol and she said it wasn’t. They didn’t do anything sexual so that’s why she doesn’t see it as cheating.
Am I crazy for thinking that this is cheating?