u/GuitarPapa

Idk how to feel but ….

Was it wrong to cheat on my baby mama when she constantly degrading me as a person? It was a year and some that we weren’t having sex nor was she even being a gf/wifey anymore.

Long story short. We have 2 kids, she was toxic to begin with and controlling. Arguements after another even before the cheating happened. Anyways, we split and both were too stubborn to try to say sorry to each other. I for some reason thought that maybe in time we’ll get back together for “the kids”. Well turns out 1 year and some she threw all that away and got a bf. I didn’t care what she did at first when we first split but now that she’s actually moving on has gotten me emotional spiraling somehow. We both are living back at our parents and have 50/50 custody. During that time apart I left her my new truck and money to spend for the family. She would constantly remind me to or ask to buy her little things, bday, vday, Mother’s Day, etc, even though we weren’t together. I was stuck in a loop trying to pay off all the debt we owed while she just stayed home. Everything sucks atm but I believe I did the better and right thing in the end.

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u/GuitarPapa — 5 days ago