I(30M) want a divorce from my wife(28F) but she is in the hospital
We have been married for 4 years, together 8. We dated in high school for a short while but we found each other again once we grew up. Our relationship has not always been perfect. She has stepped out before due to my own emotional neglect. We both have seeked therapy and worked hard on our relationship. We were just telling each other how proud we both were of each other pushing through because we love each other. We have always been very open and honest about who we are with and what we are talking about and looking after each others needs and emotions, simple things every healthy relationship deserves. We have even been trying to get pregnant for a few years now. We were in such a good place. Or so I thought. She has a few guy friends she talks to and hangs out with, but one of her guy friends alittle differently.(we will call him J for the sake of privacy) She is always talking about his kinks and the fantasies he is into(I guess he runs a s** blog). I never suspected anything from this guy, she has always shot down the idea of ever looking at him more than just a friend from school, plus he has always been really cool towards me and respectful towards our relationship. Fast forward to present day, my wife was rushed to the hospital by ambulance due to a severe medical episode. While in the waiting room, her phone was going off from several notifications from family and friends. I made sure to answer everyone back to give them a soft update... until the conversation with J came up. Their recent conversation was talking about the most recent time they hung out. They were talking about how they "attacked" each other and how addicted they are to each other. My wife even mentioned not liking some of the kinks they tried but appreciated the "intimacy" of everything. She has been flirting with him while I am working, even mentioning she needed to make sure to delete certain things, just in case I look at their conversations. That is all I needed to see. The constant s**ting, and the obvious physical betrayl, I can not even talk to her nor even look at her, I just want a divorce NOW. I have no idea when I will see her as I'm still waiting as I writing this. We do not have kids and I have enough savings to break my lease plus divorce papers and I already have someone I can stay with until I can find my own place. I also do not know how long she is going to be in the hospital either. I may confront her in a few days to give her a chance to recover, but I do not know if I can wait that long.