u/Gullible-Row-48

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I already have posted here so that will update you if you have no idea what I am talking about. So I'm with this girl. I am 13M and shes 13F and we are 14 this year, same school and grade. And I struggle mentally a lot. And it's been bad recently. Over the past 3 years I've struggled with lust and am trying to beat it. I am 2 days clean and that means a lot to me. My past relationship (previous) was 2 years ago. And I found out she was dating me for attention and never liked me. But with this girl I find her different, she actually cares. And I just want help. I want advice to stop overthinking. Advice to stop thinking she doesn't like me etc. And even worse a family friend is dying from cancer. It's a big toll on me. I have no idea what to do.

So I'll make it quick. Im 13m and this girl at my school is 13f. We both are older than the rest of the people (my year level is meant to be born in 2013 but where both born in 2012) And about 1 1/2 to 2 months ago we started talking and calling. Then recently (2 days ago yeah not long) I was walking with her to find her sister so I could meet her. And then she told me she liked me so I said "Will you be my gf" she said yes and now skip to today (yuh insane ik). I want to keep this relationship going and for a while. I'm very aware that at our ages its very rare to be dating for a while (over 5 months) and I want that. I believe she does too. We have a lot in common, both enjoy same sports. She has a heart condition and I told her I'm going to be there for her all the time. And despite my age I want this to go well and continue. Does anyone have any advice. I know I may not be giving enough detail. But I would love to hear what yall think. So after reading all of this what are some peoples Dos and Donts in this type of relationship or any advice for that matter. And if you've been dating someone for a few years and around our age I'd love to know what you did. I'll read every comment. Thank you! I know I tagged this as serious but I find it somewhat important to me. We spend every school lunch as just us two hanging out and talking.