how do you actually make good friends
so i am a 20 male 6'4 near sarnath current not in college .
I can't seem to be able to make friends ,
most of the time if i make a friend, they end up using me idk how to stop this from happening because most of the time i am too attached to leave a person or i am too dumb to understand they are using me most of my childhood i use to hangout with 2 people for almost 16 years and now i don't have them i didn't had the course to aproch people that time but now i do but still i do shit thats dumb af i am genuinely tired of people either using the other person or just watching them as a fuck machine every fucking time a make a friend if its a guy i lose money it's not a problem if they are not always doing it but i am not bill gates they don't even acknowledge it and instead start to force me to use more money and if it's a girl they see me in a sexual way i am tired of this shit i just want some good fucking friends