Should i have gone back to her?
6 months ago My gf told me that she didnt enjoy time with me,im done,leave me alone,over a fight.the fight was for an expectation vs response problem over a conversation through text msge. I didnt expect she would say that for that issue . So next day i called her but she didnt picked and i msg her and asked whether you told that out of anger or did you meant that. She was like "yes i meant that i m serious".i did the same for couple of days too(asking her whether she is serious).As she use to tell me abt breakup during fight i tried to talk abt it but she stood on what she said. Once i felt she was serious. I accepted what she said and moved on. Then for 3 month no contact (but i still love her).
I am someone who dont go back to people who dont want me. Idk why. may be if i go back to those people i feel like an irritation to them. Even though i love her i didnt messaged and i respected her decision, because of self respect too
After 3 months it was her birthday. I dont know why, i didnt wish her i felt i dont have to. And there was fear of ignorance too.
But she called me that day and asked me "why didnt u wish me i thought you would come to my place" i wondered how can she say that after everything she told me that day. We had a small chat and i didnt call her back too
After couple of month she text me we chatted. And we have gone through abt events and she told me that still likes me and when i asked abt what she said that day. She said that she said it out of anger and she was waiting expecting me to come back and solve it. I was confused and after some conversation she told me that i mean only this much to you. If you loved me u should have come back. I told her what i supposed to do at that point i called you text me for some day. But you stood on what you said
And she said something abt what it is an ideal relationship or partner for her. "An ideal partner or someone who love will comeback to solve even though the partner tells something like what she said to me on that day
If you were in my position would you have gone back to her?
Should i have gone back to her?
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