Me ( 19 M ) and my gf (21 F ) suffering because of her anxiety , why ?
My gf suffering because of anxiety , why ?
We've been in a relationship for a year, and now we're halfway through that year. The problem is that she never told me she had anxiety, and that's what made her behavior towards me change after she told me about it and she had become more herself .
to be objective, this is true, she even began to feel the effects of her hormones on her body, and this was continuing well until two days ago when we had a minor disagreement, she suddenly decided, in the middle of sex She refused to continue. I asked her why, and she said it was because of anxiety. I tried to calm her down, but she remained silent. I tried to understand what she was thinking at that moment, but she refused. She preferred silence and made me talk to her like a madman. I have a magnesium deficiency She made me fall asleep and left her silent for 15 minutes. When I woke up, I found her even more resentful. I detected some indirect sarcasm in her words after I told her there was no need to be resentful, as it wasn't my fault. Then we started laughing Until I asked her if she wanted to sleep now, she said if you felt sleepy, then sleep. I told her I was asking about you, and she said just sleep, and started browsing her phone, even though she usually falls asleep right when I do.
Today when I woke up, I woke up hating her, and ever since then I've been thinking about breaking up with her if this behavior happens again, because it makes me feel bad, especially since I let my defenses on her and this is what I feel has backfired on me.