Ugh! Invites!
Addressing invitations has to be the literal worst part of wedding planning.
My mom thinks our wedding is formal enough that we should use traditional titles like “Mr. and Mrs. John Smith.” Which, while I find this style dated, I am not opposed to using titles. Conversely, my future in-laws think titles are unnecessary because the wedding is “in the country” and no one actually cares about titles (the venue is a vineyard property fwiw)
For context, we’re inviting about 150 guests, cocktail attire, with a plated dinner/open bar.
What “rules” did you use when addressing your invitations? Did you use titles for everyone, no titles, or a mix? And how did you handle nicknames versus legal/full names? A handful of doctors on FH's side but they all use nicknames so I am finding this difficult to reconcile.