Is it abusive or am I overthinking
I am not sure how to word this, every time my partner makes me cry or makes me feel upset he just completely starts acting nicer and happier to our child when he normally isnt as nice since he is short tempered, he usually always yells at us for no reason, no matter how nice you are to him he still talks to you like your presence just bothers him , as soon as he gets off of work he just walks in all serious and annoyed , but every time I ask him if he is treating me this way because he has Someone else in mind he gets upset , even explosive, he strarts saying that maybe I’m accusing him because i might be the one cheating , can anyone actually respond and not just read the text 😢
edit: not to forget to mention but he always isnicer to everyone else in general, he’ll be nice to EVERYONE ELSEEE but me!!!!!! He only ever is nice to me when he wants to do the deed, other than that he’s just always annoyed by my presence in general and just makes me feel like I’m not worth anything, always puts me down if we have a argument
edit 2: I know no one asked but I’d just like for it to be know that I am 19, he is 23? I think , baby is 2 , kinda feel embarrassed to ask people for advice 🥲