u/GuyWithQuestions4A

Gelatinous clumps in semen are ruining me and my wife's satisfaction.

I'm getting so tired of it. I feel like my wife's enthusiasm and enjoyment of my cum is now a hollow and meaningless show that she's just putting on. She knows what's coming, I know what's coming. I'm getting really tired of this, so I'm going to be as open and explanatory as I possibly can.

My wife, as stated before, enjoys my orgasms. She looks forward to them, asks for creampies and is willing to try and swallow.

I genuinely can't blame her. If I also had two pieces of clumped up goo in my mouth, I'd have doubts too. She wants to do it for me, but sometimes can't help but gag from it and need to spit it out. Now, sex ends with me feeling bad and her feeling weird. She doesn't ask for facials anymore, and during the occasional times where she wants me to cum on my own belly so she can watch, again, she's simply only enthusiastic to the point of seeing my weird, gooey, clumpy cum.

I asked ChatGPT about it several times and checked online. All I can see for the most part is that it's "normal" (which is an answer that pisses me off for something to just get disregarded because it's not specifically unhealthy), that I should hydrate more and that it can be due to infrequently ejaculating.

Haha, no. If anything, I was worried that I was ejaculating too often. As for hydration, I hydrate to the point of not feeling thirsty at all. There *is* one doubt I have about this, though, and I will share it later.

I figured, okay, maybe I'm ejaculating too often. I have a very high drive, so even holding back 3-4 days has been very difficult for me. Still, I figured being a male with a fast metabolism, my body should be able to actually build up whatever counts as a normal ejaculate. But despite that, my cum is more often than not, clear, liquid, and with clumps of white whatever that's supposed to be at this point.

I figured maybe it's my physique. But honestly? I'd wager I'm still well within normal limits. 180cm tall, 85kg at 22 years old. I use no medication.

I don't have the healthiest diet by any means. I eat what my taste buds please, more often than not. But my most common meals are pasta with minced meat and tomato sauce that I make at home, and frozen, store bought schnitzels if I'm too busy to cook.

I have one thing I have not tested out yet, but I doubt this could possibly be the problem.

My number one choice of drink is always and always coke. Be it Coca Cola or Pepsi. 80-90% of my fluid intake is based on these. I drink zero sugar for both. I honestly can't possibly fathom how this would affect my cum, though. If anyone can genuinely point me in the right direction, even if it's to say "you have to cut coke out of your life", I would be really receptive and do my best to adhere to the advice.

I'm getting off, one way or another. I just want my wife to be happy and to feel like her husband is biologically a healthy guy. I just want her to be able to enjoy me and to see her work pay off without feeling like she's staring at an alien species.

Thanks again, and sorry for the wall of text.

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u/GuyWithQuestions4A — 13 days ago