u/Gvick_Beck

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Fearful avoidant break ups

My ex partner was open with me about his fearful avoidant behaviours. He broke up with me very suddenly at the 6 month mark. In the space of about 10 days things went from great to him telling me he was exhausted with external things going on in his life which didn’t make sense. I don’t feel I was given any real explanation and the person who ended it was not the person I recognised. It’s now almost 5 weeks and although I know I may not get any answers, I don’t feel that I ever got to have a voice in that moment. How do you as a fearful avoidant feel if an ex reaches out?

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u/Dear_Purchase4098 — 8 days ago