u/GwenPoolestar22

Hey everyone, 23 year old Gen Z latino guy here. I’m still learning a lot about American culture and relationships.

I was playing *Tomodachi Life: LTD* and noticed that when the Miis (customized characters) get married, they move in together but often sleep in separate rooms until they have a baby. I know the game is Japanese inspired, but it made me curious. Is sleeping in separate rooms somewhat common for married couples in America?

If yes, why do people do it? (snoring, different schedules, wanting personal space, etc.?)

If no, what’s the usual expectation?

I have ADHD C since I was a kid and I noticed that whenever I need to motivate myself to do things like working out (especially working out running on a threadmill) I constantly need to daydream I am an anime character (with my OG character design) or just my OG character in the style of a movie when an epic song (not necessarily epic but emotional too) or something that really makes me have so many good emotions is playing on my airpods to make me have such adrenaline and keep up until the end.

Sadly, I have lately felt like I still think like when I was 14 (now 23), and before I was doing it because I was coping with trauma and self-esteem/confidence so bad. At this point I feel like ADHD and daydreaming is a thing here and I just wanted to share my thoughts about it to know if anyone else here did the same.

Any idea if anyone else do this?

please be free to share your own story even if it’s not related to this.