I 25M got my fiance 25F pregnant, and I don't know what to do
Hey gents, so as the title states, I got my fiance pregnant. We've been together for about 5 years and have wanted kids in the future, but her period was late and she took 2 tests yesterday and both came out positive...
We're going to a clinic later today to confirm if she is indeed pregnant. We're absolutely terrified.
I myself am in the Air Force, and she's an assistant teacher at a school for down syndrome. We make okay money, but it feels it's not enough for us even now and we just got a puppy.
We have our own place, I'm currently renting and it's taking just under half of my salary.
We're absolutely terrified to tell our parents as we're both Christians and had planned on getting married in a year or 2.
We want to wait about 3 months before we tell anyone as we know miscarriages happen so we want to be sure before we say anything.
And I know, it takes 2 to tango and I'm not confused as to how this happened, we've had unprotected sex for majority of our relationship, after all this time I assumed one of us was infertile ..
I know I really gotta buckle down and get our lives in order for this child if it really is happening and if so, be an amazing dad. I know it'll be hard, maybe that's an understatement. But push comes to shove, be there and be proud...
I don't know what I'm really asking for, maybe just to vent because I'm shit scared haha