u/Haiizeroo

Im too shy to approach and it feels impossible to feel i would stand out to be approached.. what do i do!

Hi!

So ive come to a point where ive accepted im too shy and awkward to approach and given im also accepting the more submissive sides of myself (I'm a leaning switch) pursuing feels very unnatural and tbh scary for me 🥺

Yet it feels impossible to think i would be approached as it definately feels like in public that reversal is frowned apon still?

I dont know, im trying to just focus on living my life and if the right person appears and we click then yay! However i feel like i have to find the lottery for any aspect. Does that feeling go away? Or am i just catastrophizing this, all..

I would really like some advise if able cause my head making me feel 😵‍💫

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u/Haiizeroo — 4 days ago