r/RoleReversal

I feel a bit insecure as a woman into role reversal.

I’m 5’3 and quite weak and slim. Other than RR i’m super insecure about my physique. I fear I cannot hold my own or even protect myself, let alone others like my boy. I find it difficult to be dominant/taking the lead when I feel so inferior physically. And I know it’s not my fault and that my body is perfectly doing its own thing but still… I know RR guys like muscled up women and tall women.

And I know I can dominate despite my physique. But I still wish my physique was tall and domineering, strong and forceful. Instead I just have a short stature and curves in certain places. Idk about you guys but to me that doesn’t scream dominant :( When others look at us, I hate that they will always assume my boy’s the one who takes the lead because of his physique vs mine. I hate it. DAE?

If you decide to propose to your boy is he taking your name? Or you keeping it traditional also if he's taking yours... you getting him in a white dress?~ pls leave your thoughts!

Hi everyone! This is my first post here.

I am a guy in my late 20s, and over the past year I have realized I’m genuinely drawn to role reversal dynamics. It’s something I never expected to be interested in, but the more I have reflected on it, the more it feels like a natural part of who I am.

What appeals to me isn’t just the physical side - it’s the trust, vulnerability, communication, and willingness to step outside traditional gender roles. I have become curious about experiences like pegging and other role-reversal dynamics because they seem to offer a different kind of intimacy and connection.

I am wondering if anyone else discovered this about themselves later in life. What made it click for you, and how has exploring it affected your relationships or view of your sexual identity?

My guilty pleasure……

Is reading reverse gender morals fanfiction and even writing some. I’ve written very little but I’ve read a lot of fanfiction and also a few webnovels.

There are some super toxic ones, some super illogical ones, some I dare say are slop….

But i can’t stop reading 💔

They’re so intriguing at times, one of them is so good, I am still waiting for updates 😭😭😭

There is a lack for good RR media but ao3 delivers as always, it’s such a guilty pleasure but so good-

It’s my version of booktok dark romance ngl-

Gosh I love reading this stuff, I wish more writers write about works like this, I’m even tempted to write webnovels with such a setting because it’s so good

Anyone else here also read RR stuff?🥲

How realistic is it to be the little spoon as a 5'6 Indian guy? 😭

I just want a girlfriend who's stronger than me, cuddles me, and occasionally steals me like I weigh nothing.

Am I asking for too much?

If i wish for a woman that loves taking on a protector/provider role, how can i explain it to others without it just seeming like i want a sugar relationship?

I guess also if there are cis women on hrt too. I kinda feel like i might genuinely be the one singular man on this planet who is like this. Ive been on estrogen and anti-androgens for 2 years, as a cis guy, started a month before i turned 20. Im not trans or anything, thought i was for a bit but realized im not but still wanted to stay on hrt. I know not all dudes who are into RR are feminine presenting or want to look feminine but i imagine a good amount are, but even then i doubt many go so far as to take hrt to help in looking more androgynous or feminine (my goal is androgyny).

I got into RR because I always knew i was far more attracted to masculinity than feminity, like i never wanted to have to be the "boyfriend" or have to hold the leading role in the relationship. Im not into guys, so im kinda left only being attracted to masculine women, which is rough given how narrow the dating pool is. Im also not feminine or anything, i present masculine (save for long hair) even if my body has changed and is going to keep changing. I act pretty masculine in day to day life and im generally a masculine dude. So not a "femboy" by any means. Which is kinda weird given im on hrt, its normal to me but I imagine other people see it as weird. I just know i want to be with someone masculine. There's some things that are feminine about my personality, which is also why I like RR. Despite acting and presenting masculine and posturing loudly and being tough, ive never felt like the most masculine person around, like a paradox, im masculine but not truly? Like its kinda fake, and it would be nice to be with someone I dont have be macho around and they can take the lead. Idk.

Cis men on hrt are already a very very very rare breed, and i have no idea how many are also into RR, aside from me. It feels lonely when you realize its possible no one on earth is like you, so you have no one to confide in. I like popping into this sub every now and then, and wondered if id find anyone like me here. I guess the reverse also applies, a cis woman on hrt, but I imagine those are also super rare. So is anyone else here like this? 😭