r/RoleReversal

Well, you read the title... Cuz how do you find an RR feminine young man in a conservative place??? Especially the ones that are the same religion as you? Like, I highly doubt we'd recognize each other in a mosque, yk?/Jk, obviously I know other places, but people are generally way more secretive here about that.

I posted my own view about RR a few days ago. And A few people are saying What I am Imagining isn't RR at all

I dislike the usual heteronormative view. I thought RR would have the freedom for me to act and dress however I want.

Whether it's male or female. I am still a woman myself and like dressing up in both feminine and masculine clothes and like taking the initiative. And am perfectly fine with a partner that can be just as free and open. Dressing up in feminine clothing as long as he's happy.

But I see posts here and there where people are worried that 'they are not RR enough'

Is there a rule here too. A quota that you need to meet to be more RR? If so,then what's the difference?

RR is just another side of the same coin then. Just as rigid as the usual gender conformity stuff

I mean no hate. I am just genuinely frustrated and confused. Not everyone wants to act completely feminine or masculine. Some people are just in the middle, like me.

Are people like me not allowed here. I thought I found my people.

I’ve seen a heck of a lotta discussion posts lately, which I like to see that for sure, but sometimes people’s responses seem a tad tense. I’d be curious to see y’all’s just direct thoughts, are there any particular issues you feel the community needs to improve on? Certain behavioral patterns you’ve noticed, negative attitudes, things of that nature. Speaking as a man myself I definitely feel as though I have a lot to work on, and I’d like both to improve how I interact with others and to see others improve as well, and I think that only really happens if people are free to discuss their grievances. So if y’all have any, I’d be happy to hear them in the comments.

I know this is going to get a lot of downvotes, probably for oversharing, but also for reasons I won't be able to figure out

My first post didn't turn out how I expected, lots of people proved it wasn't regarding RR, which leads me to the question: am I actually an RR guy?

Now, I enjoy cooking, cleaning up etc, but I am absolutely obsessed with tomboys, taller/more athletic/muscular women. I LOVE dominant women, I love being guided with what to do (both in and out of the bedroom).

But that mainly leads me to my hobbies, which are often pretty male dominated, with the exception of art/drawing.

Anyway, I don't know if I'm just a weak guy who likes tomboys, or am I actually an RR guy?

Edit: Forgot to mention I'm quite skinny, I'm not athletic at all, and I just dress in what's comfortable

I'm a 23 year old femboy and a student living in Germany. I’ve been single for almost a year now, and for the last 3 months, since things have gotten a bit more stable for me, I’ve been actively trying to date.

I’ve been on the dating apps, but zero luck so far. I really dislike casual hookups and ONS; I’m looking for a LTR or a consistent FWB.

Honestly, it just feels impossible to find a partner right now. ☹️☹️ What would you suggest? Does anyone have tips on where to look or how I should approach this here?

and i'm tired of pretending I don't. I want to be her princess. I want her to tell me what to do. I want her to call me pretty. i want to dress cute. i want to dress like a comfy librarian with sweaters and scarves and long skirts with glasses. I want to make her food and to make her bed when she leaves for work and wash her clothes and fold them and put them away. I want her to kiss me on the hand lovingly and softly rub my knuckles or maybe put her hand on my knee as we talk. i want her to buy me flowers and give them to me on a picnic where I make her favorite sandwiches. i want to shave my legs. and my arms. i want her to move my hair behind my ear and kiss my cheek and call me her darling. I want her to be my entire world. nobody could ever suspect this when they see me. in real life i'm just a guy. but I want this to be me so bad. all of my life up until now has been such a lie.

Warning: I sexualize the FUCK out of this

I need to get this off my chest.

Recently I'm out here pondering what exactly are the sexiest parts of the male body and I'm in a fight between the back, the Fertility Belt, and the Landing Pad. I think it might just be the Landing Pad.

For those who don't know, the Landing Pad (I love typing it out, good lord) is their mons- that area just before the base. Not much, but that's why it's called a Pad and not a Landing Strip (that's the belly and chest, by the by) And it's what turns a boy into a water park.

The Landing Pad is specifically designated to provide a soft landing for any sort of grinding or knapping and it's possibly the sexiest place to stare at. Obviously it's only visible if the guy is comfortable and naked in front of you but still. It's prickly and a bit hairy unless shaved smooth. It's this cute little marshmallow that needs to be pinched, slapped, and squeezed.

My favorite part is when a boy has some weight on him. The more weight, the squishier the Landing Pad (and the Fertility Belt, let's not forget). If a boy is comfortable with me, I more often than not find myself shoving my hands down there or tugging his pants down just to stare at it no matter what he's doing. It's also amazing to stare at their ass while you bend them over and have a hand between their thighs, gripping their mons (well, with what time you have before you get an awkward handful of some meat, but that comes with the territory).

Listen I might change my tune but I'm convinced the Landing Pad is the best part, and this is coming from someone who loves ass and the curve of a back pointed at her. But feel free to correct me if wrong. I just had to talk about it. Men need to be aware they're walking around all cute and shit, all while being completely unaware of their tackling gear.

I want to write stories, mostly RR stories where backdrop can be anything from sci fi,epic,horror to evrything,also as an Indian will writes stories based on India also, so just want hear all of your thoughts, are there anyone who enjoy to read RR stories and can you suggest me some platforms where can I write, my first choice is Webnovel though,let me hear your thoughts.

Okay, first off - I'm sorry to all the men here, and I dont' mean all men, but generally speak, men suck. It alas, is the key problem in all this. The majority of men are basically selfish assholes who treat women like crap. Hell, they mostly treat other men like crap too (outside of their friend group).Edit : When I am talking about this, what I'm talking about is sexism, homophobia, transphobia, etc that come from the conditioning toxic masculinity puts on men, however MOST men do follow these social norms and help to enforce them. If you have a problem with me disliking men who are sexist, men who are homophobic, and men who are transhobic....i dont' what else to say. They suck.

However, this gets into the issue. I am getting worn down, and honestly it makes me feel borderline dysphoric the pure amount of hate against "all men", and notably they use the worlds "all" and "every" in the posts, in social media. Men should not get relationships. Women should all date women because men are trash. Women are unlucky to be attracted to men because all men suck. Etc etc. And the grouping of me in with these men, these men who victimized me (and therefore I should be their ally, not their enemy) as well throughout my entire.

It bluntly makes me feel like garbage. One of the initial points where I started feeling I was nonbinary was largely because this feeling I didn't belong to "that group' of men. But my strongest feeling is MANY men belong in the same group as men. I call them "softie men" and I feel like they are much more queer adjacent, trans adjacent, gender nonconforming adjascent, etc. than the majority of men. As a teacher, I'd say 25% of boys fall into this category. Some of these boys are likely to grow up and discover they are trans women or gay men, but...many will just be straight men who are more feminine. Kinder. I want a recognition of this subcategory of men existing and to stop being freaking lumped in with the shitty men who made my life hell (and almost caused me to commit suicide) growing up.

I don't know the point of this post. I'm just exhausted seeing people saying I deserve to die alone because things other men who also victimized me did to these women.

Edit : Gender War is Literally Happening in the Comments with Everyone deciding to yell at me at the same time. I can't imagine why I find this toxic. Who knows? To be clear, I'm checking out, if you have decided to respond to this aggressively : Fuck off.

I’m a pretty masculine-presenting guy. I have facial hair, I’m 175 cm, I go to the gym (mostly for health, not sure I actually enjoy it), play sports, like adventures, and have my own goals.

At the same time, I love a girl opening the door for me, pulling out a chair, riding the bike while I sit behind her and hold her, resting on her, sitting on her lap, being carried by her, or sleeping on her biceps. I’m especially attracted to tomboys and muscular women.

I don’t really like wearing feminine clothes. I’m comfortable being masculine in how I dress and present myself. I’m also a working professional and don’t want to depend on my partner financially.

What I dream of is a relationship where we both work, both earn, both cook, and both share the household work. I don’t want one person to handle everything. But I’d always love it if she could lift more weight than me at the gym and achieve her career and life goals one by one.

One thing I want to mention: I haven’t actually experienced most of the things I talk about here. I’m open to trying things that make my partner happy. Maybe with more exposure and experience, some of my ideas and preferences will change. Growing up in a traditional Indian environment has given me very little opportunity to explore this side of myself.

I see a lot of women here who are into femboys, so I’m curious: what about guys like me who want to enjoy the soft/submissive side of a relationship?