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This is our second baby, our first was born at 37 weeks. She was always measuring very small and she was born at 5lbs 8oz. The pregnancy was physically fine compared to this one, I can’t do this anymore. I’m so fucking uncomfortable and in pain, I can barely get around, my tail bone feels like it has a 20 pound weight pushing down on it all the time I don’t know how people do this I can’t do it. I need to have this baby but he just won’t come and I just want it to be over 😭 I’m at my breaking point because it hurts so much. Why won’t he just come. I just assumed it would be like my first and wouldn’t be so bad and that he would come around the same time she did but he’s freaking not. Sorry I know this is just a lot of complaining but man I am just ready, I need to feel ok again physically and I won’t until he is born. I also have to wait for it to happen naturally because my first was an emergency c section (breach baby) and my obgyn won’t do inductions or any assistance with a vbac. She was pushing for me to do a repeat c section but ultimately said it was my choice. I don’t want surgery again, it was a fucking brutal recovery and I don’t wanna go through that again if I don’t have to- we got pregnant with our second when our daughter was 18 months so I met the qualifications to try vbac. This baby has been head down and perfectly healthy this whole time so I do feel like it’s going to work out but I just need it to happen already.