u/HalalBiggie

Caught Wife Flirting with Non Muslim

Caught Wife Flirting with Non Muslim

Throwaway for obvious reasons

Caught my wife flirting discretely with her supervisor at work. She heads to work early by an hour claiming to spend time, she does not know that I caught them drinking coffee together. I also caught her saying how muscular and well dressed he is.

While this hasn’t moved, I am boiling inside. No, I haven’t had an outburst as it won’t do any good. I am in the gather evidence base before consulting an attorney. I am unable to focus at work.

I was an amateur bodybuilder before marriage. We have been married for 3 years and I let myself go the last 3 years reaching a BMI of over 40. I am disgusted in my own body, don’t think I am happy but I am trying to improve. Her supervisor isn’t even a Muslim. I am a revert to Islam and apart from my weight I do not lack anything religiously.

Please advice me how to proceed, I feel my head half numb just by thinking about it.

UPDATE: I have initiated talaq and I am consulting a lawyer regarding divorce procedure

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u/HalalBiggie — 10 days ago