u/Halatosis81

I am a guy in a marriage that seems to be headed for a divorce, and that’s a good thing.

Seriously, the marriage has run its course we have not been intimate on the regular for half a decade or more and recently she said some things to me that can’t be unsaid, even if she wanted to unsay them.

I don’t hate her, I don’t think she hates me but we are pretty much done.

So my ask of you guys is this.

How can I have the best divorce, or maybe the least bad divorce.

What are some steps to avoid.

Also, out son is 20 so there won’t be a fight over kids, just dividing assets.