Does anyone have advice for performance anxiety while topping?
Hey everyone,
I need some sex advice from transfems who are able to top.
I found out a year ago that I'm a switch and since then I've had a great time domming. I don't have any gender dysphoria about my dick anymore and I'm very comfortable using it during sex. It also still gets hard even though I've been on E for years now.
This year I wanted to try penetrative sex but it never worked because my dick got soft right before i wanted to penetrate. This happened multiple times now with different sex partners. First i thought that the condom was too tight but that's not it because I got hard again wearing the condom then I focused on something else. Now I'm thinking that it's probably performance anxiety but I don't know what to do about that.
I know that it's not dysphoria. I have fantasies about topping my sex partners and I have absolutely no problem using my dick for other sexual acts while domming.
I don't think that advice for cis men with performance anxiety would help me, so I'm trying to get advice from other trans fems with experience in topping.
I also want to add that I only started having sex and getting comfortable with my dick long into my transition.