u/HalfFrequentt

So i was working in a place where everyone so kind and nice to each other, yk there's gossips here and there, but everything was just fine. There was a person that works at home everyone was loves him and he worked at this company for 2 years, he's a top performer his the best for the TL and the manager he has a lot of friends in the office and most of them are best friends.

So after few months working there, this person came to the office to start working with us he was so nice and very good at work, but the problem started here, he had such a bad smell (armpits smell), i tried to avoid sitting next to him being with him in the same room but it was unavoidable, since we work in the same team.

(I have problem with my nose it's very sensitive and i have sinusitis)

The thing is i didn't see anyone talking about it or complaining they was just spraying air freshener, also i didn't like to gossip about him with anyone, i was holding on for weeks saying that maybe because he just moved in there's some issues with water or showering, but come one the deodorant isn't even expensive, he really made my day worse every time i go to the office and start my day with that smell.

So i gave up and decided to talk to my TL (he was a friend of him) but he was a good listener and i had no one else to talk to about such a problem, it was freaking hard to talk about but he was kind and kept on asking whom am i talking about and then he figured it out by himself and said it was the same problem before i come to the company, so he told me that he will do something as long as it hurts me.

After 2 days all of us received a mail from the HR and the subject was "Personal hygiene", after that actually the smell stopped and everything came back to normal.

But after a week or smt two people i used to sit with (one of them is the person's best friend) was talking about the mail and they were dead to know who complained and who was the targeted person, so i said i complained, and after a while the person's BFF asked me in private who was it, i told her and she judged me so much, she asked if i mentioned the name of him to the TL or not i said no but i did, i just didn't want here to hate me i was so bothered by the smell.

After few months i left the job and everything was fine from the pictures they post, ik I'm overthinking about, i just can't sleep right now and i have work in the morning, i was thinking was it a bad call that i complained or not, like i didn't want to make any embarrassment to that person.

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