Sister in Law cancelled wedding party. Now have baby on way and dont want her near us
I regretfully invited my sister in law to my hen do. We all had a great time in Spain and everyone came home buzzing except her. 1 day after we got home she rang my husband saying that we cant have our pre wedding party at their uncles house (she lives in the granny flat attached to his house) because she has never been made to feel so uncomfortable in her life as what she was on my hen. EVERYONE made and effort with her and she is friends with my actual sister and no one knows what she is getting at. She made up conversations that didn't happen and she asked my husband if I had a drinking problem because I got drunk on my hen!
We got married abroad and I was pressured by his whole family to allow her to go. I decided to do so for an easier life and she has not spoken to me since. Has actually turned her back to me in public or spoken to the person I am with and not me. We now have a baby on the way and I dont think she has a right to meet the baby. She hasn't reached out to me while pregnant and I just dont feel comfortable having her in my house post partum or at any stage in the future. Am I being unreasonable?