EDIT: I messaged her and told her. But in a different way this time. Thank you everyone for helping me. Not sure how to lock post but I got what I needed 💕
I know this story pops up alot, but the last time I dealt with a female clingy friend was back in college lol.
Well it happened to me again, but on Roblox. I met a girl playing some type of game around a month and some change ago. she said "I was really sweet" and since then she's been on my hip and quickly joins my game anytime im online. And its starting to piss me off. We'll name her "S"
We had a disagreement a some weeks ago about a situation that happened in game. Some guy called her a loser, and I said "um" because I was speechless. The guy left pretty fast like 5 seconds later. She sends me a private message after reporting him stating "why I didn't defend her?" And I told her it's because "the guy left really fast and I bet it was a kiddo tbh." She was upset and was going to leave and I told her "hun, its fine, he's gone now, its okay". We didn't speak for a day after that and im in my private server on GAG, with my status off and she still managed to find me. She joins, tell me I can tell her anything if its bothering me, and I told her I think you overreacted on the situation a bit. She then says I was really rude. And then said I wasn't being nice? That's changed the friendship for me then.
Other things she has done is when my romantic interest is online and we are playing, she joins us. She knows who is he and he know she's a friend. But she'll private message me in games saying thing like "tell him you wanna kiss him" or "tell him things you wanna do to him"...
If I am playing with our mutual group and our "server" is full (our mutual friend invited me to a server and that mutual friend had 2 other friends. S wasn't online at the time), she message me on discord after seeing me online asking "what are yall talking about?" And then minutes later she's having a panic attack? And I have to reassure her that we weren't talking about at all. we really don't. If anything its a bunch of poop jokes. (She has done this twice already)
When we are in servers with our other friends, she'll privately message me IN GAME just to talk to me which is weird because is leaves everyone else out of the convo. So I dont really respond.
Today, I was on and turned on my status on for other friends and soon after I get a message saying "do you like playing with me, and do you enjoy playing games with me?" Despite us all playing yesterday and having a good time...I turned off my PC and went the hell to sleep. Woke back up to get on again and joined my private server (status off) and she joined again! She was previously playing another game so I was like ok she's distratced..I guess not.
Im 28 and she's 33 if that helps at all.
But sorry for the long post lovelies, I don't have anywhere else to go too with this, and I dont wanna talk to mutual and have everyone against me. Im extremely close to cutting her off but I know she has things going on. But so do i.