u/HandleDry1190

I wish I had more to say. My twins are 5 months old and the best boys ever but it’s all caught up to me. I’m exhausted.

Earlier today, one of my twins woke up before his brother and refused to stay in his crib. I brought him out to the living room to hang out with him for the 20 or so minutes before brother needed to wake up and I couldn’t help but think to myself: “wow. Imagine how much easier the day to day would be if we only had to raise one child at a time.” Never in a million years did I think I would be a mom of twins but I wouldn’t change it for anything. NOW, this leads me to ask, parents of multiples that have no other children.. do you wish you could’ve experienced a singleton? And parents of multiples with a singleton (or multiple singletons) as well.. after raising twins, can you say with confidence that it is in fact much harder raising twins than a singleton? I am not in any way saying that being a parent is easy, but if you can compare the two, what would you say? We only wanted two kids so we won’t be having another and won’t get to experience raising a singleton.