u/Handsome__Cake

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I don't know if this is the right place to be, but I am gay. I found out about it when I fell in love with a guy and after "fighting" with myself for a year I accepted internally that I like men. Before that I liked only girls and couldn't even think that I would lose my attraction to women completely.

Unfortunately, I cannot be openly gay and wouldn't even like to get into a secret relationship with another man.

My question is: are there people who later on went from gay to bi? I am so so tired of an endless debate with myself and need some advice. I would appreciate any help and advice ❤️

I cannot stand LinkedIn.

Everything seems fake, both the jobs and the posts from random people.

Everyone writes a huge post which states a problem and then gives an insight of how to solve or how to tackle a problem. Everyone else agrees in the comment section and then nothing changes.

For example, HR wrote once how a guy applied 3 times for the same position and how she kept rejecting the first two times. After the third time she decided to call the applicant for an interview (because she was annoyed I guess) and guess what, they hired the applicant. At the end of the post it was written "...I understood that we shouldn't judge an applicant by his/her CV.". What? Really? Such a huge invention.

The comments were even more diabolical: claps and congratulations. My jaw dropped because for me it was a sign of incompetence rather than a "good" example and a sign of how many good applications are lost because someone in HR doesn't like the CVs.

Another example, everyone who is not lazy posts that AI broke the system bla bla bla. What? Really? Obviously, if HR uses AI for recruiting then the applicant uses AI to build their CVs, portfolios and Cover Letters. The game becomes who will fool more and put more bs in the job posting or in the CV.

And then, NO ONE solves a problem. The recruitment system with fake posts continues flooding LinkedIn and making it a useless tool to use.

I hope I am not the only one who gets so much frustrated from everything on LinkedIn.