u/Hanging_out07

I am so frustrated right now that I just wanted to share my heart out with you all and also understand if everyone feels the same. So I got married recently and we shifted houses. Its then I observed that after marriage, for every little decision, all the vendors, home owners, shopkeepers look at my husband as if I dont have an opinion or say in any of those. They even tend to ignore what I have to say if its not coming out of my husband’s mouth. This irritates the hell out of me because I am living away from home since 13 years now and very well know how to deal with them. I never faced this earlier when I was single and my decision/inputs were considered. But now I have to tell my husband what all needs to be said. How do you all deal with it?