u/Hangmanhateful

I have seen some ex-sailors and master mariner like me have their own NVOCC business ., the path even I don't know considering things were easy before compared to know.

But those who are in this trade., can you give an insight that is maritime background a leverage which I can use later , at present I do not know anything about the logistics trade even though being the core component in the global supply chain.

I do plan to enter as an employee first in a logistics /freight company before going full fledge independently.

AM security basically means having enough contacts ,social networks, profile where you don't have to struggle on family end if the match is finalized or even in the search phase where above things matter a lot.

So one of my friend younger sister is looking for an AM match , she is 27 something and does has all the qualities which may place her at the top of food chain considering the gender ratio in the AM.

But she is still struggling probably because of her dysfunctional family. Her dad is estranged from the family since years , Mom is quite narcissistic and is in a live in relationship with another man, brother who is my friend is disinterested in anything because of trauma induced after above issues and then he went to Canada for studies and induced depression because of not finding a job as per his skill .

So basically she is on her own in meeting matches, talking to families and all. This is where she face the problem where many prospects ghost her as family talks get difficult because of above reasons , she wants to marry in same community so the filter gets again hard.

Now , accidentally she became my RM in the bank , I know about her brother condition and after chit chat came to know came she is looking for AM

I funnily told her that if there is no restrictions for you in finding a partner , why you are getting into this mess., most women I know hate AM and first time I am seeing a girl looking for AM matches despite no such restriction.

Now what she told me was eye opening , first she said that since nothing happened in love finding in all these years , so for a marriage this is the only good option for her as dating apps are for different purpose.

I again told her you are still 27, there is lot of time., then she said it's not about age , there are many issues in finding a partner who is likeable enought to get settled and serious enough on his end to consider for the end game of marriage and kids.

Then she said I will never understand this as I am a guy , then later on explicitly mentioned that if she goes the LM route , to get a guy serious enough for marriage she has to sleep with him before marriage which she does not want as for her , if things go south and marriage doesn't happen she will not be able to cope and go on a downward spiral considering the emotions involved., gave examples of her friends who are entering AM phase after wasting 4-6 years with another man .

So ,AM becomes her only hope where atleast she doesn't have to prove herself before getting commitment.

A colleague recently joined and He is my junior and I have seen his trading accounts , he keeps 50 lakhs margin and easily earns 1.5-3 lakhs daily , sometimes he lose but other trades offset his loss.

I was only into equity but now I am fascinated by this trading.

From his journey , I came to know the following.

1. He cares a damn about fundamentals

2. Only knows about 150 FnO stocks, he buys nifty 500 stocks with spare cash and during a great fall.

3. Uses nuvama and fox , he said he pays 50k a year for fox

4. He lost initially 30 lakhs in first 2 years and since 1.5 years he has made 4.5cr + profit. On budget day itself he earned 30 lakhs.

5. Most trading secrets he learned from Pankaj bhardwaj, but when I opened his YouTube I only saw comments calling Pankaj a scammer and fraud.

6. I saw he has 15 years of data and does know exactly which stock rise and fall in their seasons. He told me to blindly but 3-4 major auto sector stocks for swing trading as of now.

7. He sets EMA at 9,21,50 and then other indicators he use are supertrend and RSI. I am still learning about all of them.

Edit- He says it's not easy and he has invested lots of time but one thing he deny is about luck , he said it's everything about technique and the ability to master it.