Online Hijab Conversations: Does Anyone Else Feel Weird About It?
This might already be a common thing, but lately I’ve noticed an increase of it on Muslim subs specifically. Whenever a woman shares her opinion, asks a question, or talks about hijab, Muslim men quickly jump in to teach, correct, or give “expert” opinions on the matter.
I recently saw a reel where a Muslim dawah brother asked another brother, “Do you think hijab is a journey?” And it made me wonder: how are men speaking so confidently and deeply about a ruling that specifically applies to women?
I’m not saying men can’t know Islamic rulings or discuss them. But I do think there’s a difference between understanding a ruling and constantly inserting yourself into women’s conversations about experiences you’ll never personally live through.
If Muslim men want to advise on these matters, wouldn’t it make more sense to focus on the women close to them, like their sisters, wives, mothers, nieces, etc. instead of preaching to random women online? Especially on Reddit, where these discussions often become harsh, judgmental, or completely lacking empathy.
And hijab is only one example of this.
I’m curious how other Muslim women feel about it. How do you feel when Muslim men express very strong opinions on rulings that apply only to women?