u/HappyGazelle7994

I matched with the man of my dreams and we talked everyday on facetime and phone calls from 10 pm to 3 am daily. We really liked eachother and hit it off well. He lives 3 states away and was married to a woman before and has a kid. We talked about what that would look like as he dates and he reassured me that he can do distance because he feels his person is not in his state. He comes to see me one weekend and its great. he comes back the next weekend and its even better. we go exclusive, we delete our apps, and we continue our daily communication. He comes back again and we do sleep together whereas before we did other stuff. The chemistry was insane. He has never slept with a guy before. Anyway were 2 months into our relationship with all the feelings and something felt off one day and he said he didnt know but then said distance was affecting him and that i deserve someone 100%. I was blindsided and very hurt. There isnt anyone else in the picture, i know that for sure and the communication with him has been so good. Im just confused as to why all of a sudden he pulled away when we both were starting to fall for eachother. Texts from just a week ago showed that he was enhoying what we had and couldnt wait for me to come visit this summer. Hes not fully closeted, out to sister and friends and work friends but not to parents or kids mom. He deleted his snapchat, facebook and other stuff but kept me on instragram and still has our locations. is he going through an identity crisis? I need help bc im left devastated.