Everybody is trying to control me despite me doing better than them
Im 32 years old, currently making the prestigious 6 figures job and I'm constantly surrounded by people trying to micro manage me to the slightest even though I am doing so much better than them.
I feel like I have spent my entire life proving everybody wrong and it's still not good enough. I've made myself, even managed to buy myself a great apartment at the age of 29 by my own income and savings, and still I feel that everybody is trying to push me in a direction. From trying to decide who I should get married with to the colors of my f#%king walls, apparently because having ONE wall painted black would make me depressed. Even my girlfriend don't even trust me enough to bake a cake without the need to micromanage every single step I'm doing and I'm tired of it.
I don't mean to brag, but I am doing so much better than everybody trying to control me. It's like they want MY life because their own lives aren't as made as mine. I have a great job, I have my own apartment, my own garage where I can fix my motorcycles, trying to teach myself new skills etc. And for some reason it feels like everybody around me is trying to live their life through me because they know they couldn't get to where I am.
I know I can come off as a bit obnoxious. But having everything just to feel like everybody else is trying to have a piece of it makes me feel I won't have anything left in the end. The more people push me in one direction the more I have went in another direction. And even in my spite people don't seem to listen.