u/Happy_Access_9435

I (21 M) have not been having the best time in college. You could look through my other post for more context but I am extremely unhappy with my current college experience. I transferred from community college in the spring of 2025 and managed to find people I could get close too however most of them were in their final semester and graduated and the people who were in the same year as me just got extremely busy. The semester after that I tried to pledge a business fraternity and it didn't end up working out due to the stress of classes and I couldn't handle the other work they were asking me to do. After that I tried a cultural club however the club itself was extremely cliquey and hard to insert myself into the club. I kept pushing and trying to make this cultural club work but have come to the realization that they just don't really like me like that. Next semester will be the start of my final year in college and I can't help but feel a lot of regret and loneliness. Do i just hunker down and get through it and chalk up college as just a set of bad memories or do i try again?

I really want to have some friends to just get some lunch or hangout with. I'm feeling pretty lonely out here :(.

Would appreciate any advice for people who were in my predicament

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u/Happy_Access_9435 — 17 days ago