Five years ago, some people moved in next door to me and after about a year, I started having issues with them, because I suggested that they not open a business in their driveway (the street isn’t zoned for this).
Things have since deteriorated to the point where they are bullying me in a legal way. They know I am scared of them and that their presence makes me anxious, or so I think, and whenever I am outside, they come and stand next to the fence by my yard for no reason.
Their friend lives across the street, and also participates in the subtle harrassment.
I live alone and they have five adults—two adult sons, their parents, and one of the son’s wives.
Their friend is married and has two kids and often has friends visiting.
I feel completely outnumbered and overwhelmed and I no longer enjoy being at home. I am single and don’t have close family or friends here. When I see these people, I feel so nervous that I feel like vomiting, even tho they don’t talk to me. Ghey refuse to wave back or say hi. This got worse last year when their friend come and pounded on my door so hard that I thought he would break it down. Later, when I was outside in my driveway, he came up behind me and threatened to hurt my dogs.
I’ve been looking for a different house but haven’t found the right one and it’s a very expensive time to move. I would have to pay over twice what I paid for my current house. I also feel that I shouldn’t have to move, because this is my home, and I have as much right to be here as they do.
However, I am wondering if my mental health is more important than money or keeping a house in a neighborhood I like—it is a convenient location and other people, not on my street, are friendly and kind.
Does anyone have any advice or a similar story to share that might help me?
Thank you.