u/Hat-Natural

I feel like this Reddit is filled with people hating Law, but omg I love him. I watch a lot of reality competition shows and over the years, whether it be Project Runway or any other show, it feels like the judges are constantly being nice lately, no matter if what the contestant did was awful. It’s like everything is sugar coated. There’s some outfits on this show that are god awful and judges will say something like we love the fabric and the vision but it’s not up to the standards we set for you. Fine it’s BARELY a critique but It’s like all the judges are constantly walking on their tippy toes to try to be nice when in reality the shit looks fucking awful.

It is honestly amazing to finally have a judge who JUDGES. Who sees a piece of shit and literally just calls it out for what it is - a piece of shit. I honestly don’t even think the majority is mean! He’s saying what over half of us are thinking in our heads. Sure I guess the truth hurts and the truth can be mean, but it’s the blunt truth and people need to hear it.

My job does this incentive program where you get a credit you can use within 6 months if you work a certain amount in a month. I have a $400 credit and want to spend it on a really good dinner for my partner and I while we’re at Aulani. Any recommendations (at Aulani or nearby)?

Hey everyone! We’re two childless Disney adults and going in September. I’ve spent a few days at Aulani before, but my partner hasn’t and wants to get the most out of the experience. What tours, activities, etc. did you absolutely love and would you recommend for two adults?

Staying a week with boyfriend and mother and cannot for the life of me decide between the two. Fairmont is almost $1.5k more in total. We’re looking at one bedrooms because of the family trip and I basically want an amazing grounds/beach and emphasis on a great pool.

Going in December

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Before I start, I’m in therapy and trying medications.

I have had severe OCD for over a year now that currently revolves around rabies and bats. I CONSTANTLY think a bat bit me. For example, today alone I kicked a sock in my room without looking and thought what if I hit a bat and the sock just happened to also be there, heard leaves rustling I walked by and thought a bat was there and definitely got me, and when leaving a restaurant felt something hit my arm or wind move my shirt or idk and I’m CONVINCED a bat flew into my arm, bit me and flew off before I had time to assess or look to see it (was leaving a work lunch so couldn’t look around for a bat in the plants right next to the door without looking crazy).

My OCD boils down to a fear of dying from something totally preventable due to me not acting on it and/or me not noticing. I wish I was just afraid of bats outside but I’m convinced they are EVERYWHERE, in my house, in my office, in every bush, etc. and anytime I feel ANYTHING I think it was a bat. People tell me I’d feel or see a bat so just need to trust myself but I can’t trust what I feel or see because I CONSTANTLY convince myself I saw or felt something. I’ve been bit by a bat at least 37 times today in my mind and I’ll create the feeling and scenario for each.

My therapist says I have to accept the unknown but I’m really struggling on that. I wish I was back on my old OCD theme that was leaving the burner on or water running and destroying my house because I can’t figure out how to get over this one when the reality is, if I get something wrong I simply die which feels like a huge problem