Getting lots of looks recently and struggling. Not sure if its because I'm seen as visibly trans, feminine, or androgynous?
30 years old
3 1/2 years on HRT
Today's lazy fit with mascara only, electrolysis redness, and unwashed hair lol.
I get gendered correctly like 95% of the time anymore, and people are often surprised to learn I'm trans. Usually it's only iffy when I'm at work where the women's and men's uniforms are basically identical and overall masculine. Then I'm definitely seen as a bit more androgynous especially due to my size. Even then though I'm usually correctly gendered after speaking or they use something neutral with a very rare occasional sir. But also Still get lots of looks or stared at when I'm out and about, and having a lot of anxiety over it. So I'm curious how I'm honestly perceived when not done up. Especially as I often times can't use makeup right now because I need to let my skin heal.