r/transpassing

Hey all, im currently thinking about getting FFS, im very unhappy with the shape of my face, especially forehead and brow ridges, I feel very manly with it. I ususally get she/her and maam, on the phone im mostly recognized as female too. I am quite tall tho with 5‘9 and shoe size 12 1/2 (ughhh). I do get a lot of stares when i have heavy make up on, otherwise I get a lot of looks/stares from men and the occasional smile from women. I cant help but feel clocky some times, mainly because of my body shape (had a lot of muscles before) and my big face. I dont know, I need some expert opinions on this and I am happy for any advice too. Thank you!!

I feel way less anxious this semester but still kinda nervous 😓

I get the they/them treatment or the sudden “what’s your pronouns” a lot in queer spaces when neither of those things happen for cis women so obviously i’m getting clocked.
In public though i almost always have strangers use she/her or “ma’am” for me

hi guys i hit 19 months hrt yesterday and still have been boymoding the whole time because i feel like i have a very masculine face / bone structure. do i have any hope for future or is FFS a need ? i’ve been called maam twice, but people usually avoid gendering me at first until i speak and they hear my deep ass voice. do you think i’ve been clocked as transgender to my coworkers or would they just assume im a cis male ?

I'm MTF btw.

2 years, 4 months hrt. Shrank a couple of inches, but I’m still 6’1.

Figuring out my style.
Tomb Raider is the only look I like for now. Not much into make up nails or lashes, etc. the further I’ve gone into my transition. Just a little contrast near the eyes/mascara most days. Little blush/lip blush, clear coat nails. Brows threaded. This is what femininity feels like for me, for now.

I got brow bone reduction. Still get stares, but I live in France, people have always starred/given dirty looks. People just have stink face/nose here I guess. 🤭

Genuinely don’t know if I pass… as a big woman? or an Olympic swimmer… ?

I think I’m seen like a trans woman now, rather than a cross dresser like I was before my frontoplasty. Nothing wrong with either, of course, I just want the freedom and peace of mind that comes with passing. I want to travel far and wide. 🪽

I was thinking of going for a liplift and jaw reduction.
Worth it? Er brainworms?

I've spent so much time focusing on my face I nearly forgot to get feedback on my body.

I also have voice here:
https://voca.ro/14RGlMd64uVU

Feel free to check out my profile for my posts.

This will be my last for a while.

Brutally honest, constructive feedback only please.
Thank you

What u think about my hand?except the little hairs do i pass?

the lip piercings r fake

I started HRT at 17, been on oral estradiol since 9/21/25 spiro since 2/19/26, and progesterone since 4/24/26.

6 months hrt 6’2 175lb 19 inch shoulders 😭💔

i would say you guys to guess but i obvioulsy look like a male. i have 16 years. im mtf. currently growing out my hair. pre hrt. i could start wherever i want because in my country if you have 16 you can start hrt without your parents consent. i don't start because im sacared of what people would think.. do you think i would pass? at least do i look a little bit androgynous? maybe when my hairs longer ill make a guess post make me know what you guys think. try to imagine me with longer hair and say to me if i would pass. please. please

i have makeup on the eyes

Just a face pic because right now my body clearly wouldn't pass. Pre-HRT so just wondering if there's anything structural about my face, that HRT wouldn't touch, that'd stop me from passing?

Really not a fan of the size of my nose/chin/jaw but it's so hard to know how other people judge it. Thoughts?

i was wondering how well i pass.I would love any tips or suggestions on passing more. especially for at work I get sird alot in my work uniform(2nd fit)

Looking for some tips and attention. 26yo. I've been lucky that my body is very small (160cm, 48kg) and my voice is in the cis range by itself.

I went to a party and was driving back in the morning not having slept, so I look rlly rough, but its a good representation of how I look with no filters and a little makeup.

I know I shouldn't drive and do this. I was not thinking and still in party mode but wont be doing that again.

https://streamable.com/gb3o3p

I want to get laser for face and ffs eventually but in the meantime any other tips would be great. My nose is massive but nothing I can do about that until ffs. I'm still growing out my hair but I honestly have no clue what to do with it style wise so I usually just put it in a ponytail with lil face framing bangs. I honestly hate how I look when my hair is down.