u/Hazel_Moonchild21

It’s been only 4-5 months since we got married and started living together. Almost every day, I’m waking up in the middle of night to my husband on me trying to do warm up activities and I would gently decline saying wait till morning or something. Disclaimer- He always wakes me up first with love talking. I’ve never really woken up to anything more than ki$$ing. So he waits till I wake up and consent. He’s always going back to sleep when I decline. This is slightly annoying since I can’t fall back asleep as fast as him, but honestly I really enjoy the attention lol.

I felt like his S drive randomly gets high in the middle of the night because during day, he’s not this freaked out like this lol. The approach is different during the day. I just want to ask your perspective on this, especially men’s. Do y’all do this too? I would love to know the psychology behind this and any tips to make the situation better.

Me and my partner had been S active since January and not once was he able to reach climax. I’m his first partner so he is fairly new to it so at first I thought he will adjust with time. We are active for like 4-5 days a week every week. We are comfortable with eachother now. He still has failed to reach climax and now both of us have started to get worried. we have no intention of getting pregnant anytime soon but worried if something needs medical attention. Plus I need him to enjoy it to the fullest. He used to masturbate every day and he does it in extreme speed to reach the end. So the only explanation we have is because that stimulation is impossible to reach with vaginal penetration cuz obv we can’t reach that speed :/ (I’m not a pillow princess. We try lots of different stuff and I please him well)

Any tips from someone who has experienced this would be grately appreciated. Thank you!