What are cute ideas to have my Partners meet for the first time?
Hi! I (25,nb) am currently trying to plan the first meeting of my two partners. I'm Solo Poly and this is the first time I'm together with two people so I'm kinda nervous. What if they hate each other???? (they probably won't they're both really cool and funny i just hnggggggggggg)
I met my girlfriend's boyfriend pretty casually and that was like... amazing. They live together but each have their own room so when i was at her place he just came over for an hour or two that first time and we played mario kart and then he left again.
But I don't live with either of them, I actually live about an hour away (they live in the same city) so a short casual 1 hour hangout at my place feels a bit uhhhhhhhhhh idk.
I've talked with them about it and they said they would both be fine with coming over just to meet the other person and then leaving again (because we all decided it would be a lil weird if they both came over, met, and then only one of them went home again and the other person stayed longer at my place). But I think I would prefer if we did some activity maybe? Like going somewhere and then maybe hanging out a bit at my place after and then they go home? Because I know that if they both come over and we all sit at my lil kitchen table with nothing to do except tak we're all gonna be super awkward and it could be fine, sure, but hm. Idk. U know? Honestly i probably just have to pick any activity and it's gonna be fine but uhhhhhhhhhhhh yahhhhhh I really want to get this right :')