Is being annoyed a valid reason to end things?
I (19m) have been seeing this guy (21m) for about a month now. Starting off, everything was going amazing and perfect. I would visit his college nearly 5 nights of the week (about a 30 minutes drive), we would go on weekend outings, and I was honestly feeling very happy. I thought he could be the one for me.
But, the past week and a half, I had finals, which had me very stressed. Stress commonly leads me to me being easily irritated. I decided to hang out with him to relieve stress but, being around him did not make me feel any better. In fact, he made me feel worse.
He didn’t change anything in his behavior, but I think my perception of his “endearing” qualities did a 180° turn.
He is very intelligent, and I usually love that about him. But the issue is that he loves to hear himself talk — which is perfectly fine when I have nothing to say, I am actually quite interested in what he has to say — but often times, when I am talking, he will interrupt me mid-sentence, which 1. Makes me feel like he doesn’t care what I have to say 2. Makes me mad.
He is also a self proclaimed lover of ragebaiting.
There are a few more things that I cannot think of right now, but they are all mostly inconsequential in the grand scheme of things.
I have since moved back home (about an hour away from his school) and ever since I moved back, I have been feeling the urge to break things off with him and experience summer single.
We aren’t official yet but if we continue as we are now I foresee us becoming official.
We have been FaceTiming every couple days and to me, it has only felt like a chore, rather than something enjoyable.
My main issue with this situation is that I don’t know if I’m losing feelings just because I’m not seeing him as much in person or if I’m just losing feelings altogether.
I don’t want to do something I will regret but also, 1. It’s not that deep 2. it’s been a month 3. I’m 19 and I’m sure there are many people ahead of me
If I have found the one I’m sure it will work itself out. If I haven’t, then I mean I guess there isn’t much reason to continue if I am not happy.
Any advice?