TIFU ... flared bases are important.
Today me and my partner fucked up, we were engaged in coitous and we where using a cheap butt plug with a flared base... but not flared enough apparently. Not five minutes in she looked at me wide eyed and froze.
'It's slipped in'
Three words you do NOT want to hear while using a metal buttplug.
After her freezing the freak out begun, though I remained calm (absolutely shutting myself internally) and supported her getting her to try and relax as much as she could, if I were here I would also be freaking out.
First I let her try and push it out over the toilet to no avail, then she tried pulling it out herself as she was too embarrassed to ask me.
After five minutes of her attempting I had to intervene as to not make it worse and accidentally push it further i
I donned on the surgical latex glove and went spelunking, eventually after some effort removing the foreign object from her buttock.
It took a hell of a lot of trust and respect for one and other to get through it but in the end we made it out with little to no injury apart from a couple scrapes where she cought herself with her nails.
Whats the lesson here?
FLARED BASES ARE IMPORTANT AND SHOULD BE WIDER THAN THE TOY ITSELF!!!!.
We learnt that today, the hard way.
And always trust respect and support your partner in a time of need.
TL;DR: don't use buttplugs that have a small flared base if you want to have issueless fun.