u/HealSym719

I’ve been married for 6 months and absolutely regret it. I want out but don’t know what to do, also he won’t agree to a divorce.

All of this started due to his family’s behavior, especially his mother. I don’t want to go into too much details to not give anything away but we’ve gone to therapy over this and he always defends them whenever I raise a concern or he would change what he said previously to cover up for them.

They treat him so poorly such as excluding him in things or not giving him the same treatment as his other siblings because he married me.

I feel so miserable know that I married into a family like that and a man who won’t stand up for me.

Our symbolic wedding hasn’t happened yet but would be happening at the end of the year. We already did the registry and legal stuff.

If you were in my position what would you do?

My supervisor and I are not compatible. She’s made my life as a federal employee a living hell and I always dread going to work because of her.

Prior to her joining the team, my life was fine and everything was great. She was brought over because she’s friends with the program director.

When she first came over, she asked for my seat; she didn’t ask me directly, but she asked her manager who emailed me and told me to move seat.

She’s always insinuating that I’m trying to steal time but I record my hours appropriately. An incident that stands out to me was when we got 4 hours to vote and she said I couldn’t take the time off because I didn’t vote on the day I had said I’d go vote.

I had Covid and she forced me to come in only for me to be sent back home.

She asked me to a rotation with another team and also lied and said there’s no more work for me on her team after her rotation.

She’s also always spreading lies about me which ends up making it back to me someway or another.

She also talks to most persons that are not white in a different tone.

I’m so tired and exhausted from all of this and it’s taking a toll on my mental health and I don’t even know what to do because everyone in the office are all friends who brought each other over to the program.