Unable to understand if my ex was a narcissist or not
I broke off a 5 year long on and off relationship but as i have read on this subreddit i am unable to figure out if my ex was narcissistic or not
So any advice or experiences would really help
I read that narcissistic people never admit their misteaks but mine admitted said sorry and said he would change, changed for 15 20 days but then repeated them
Cheated on me multiple times, said he won’t do it again but did again, manipulated me into thinking he won’t again but did again, and this continued for years, until this year, he completely changed, no girls added, no instagram account, but i still found small small things like clevage pic saved(said girl had same mobile as me), searched his ex id(said its just a search he didnt add her)
And this time he didnt flinch, he showed his mobile phone easily every time, no snatching, but earlier he used to flinchHe abused me emotionally and verbally, said he gets it in anger and i need to help, he abused when i didnt agree to anything he doesnt like, and said sorry and manipulated me into thinking that he is correct
Very dominating , controlling and insecure, when he used to cheat he used to potray it on me saying you must be doing this when in reality he was
Image centred and self centred, wanting to look perfect, egoistic
Paid for me everytime never let me pay,
Was very lustful, and called his ex begging for sex
Called me a whore and what not