aita for confronting my M(19) brother about his F(16) Girlfriend
Last Friday I found out that my brother was in a relationship with a friend who is 16. Some back ground about both of them and the age gap is my brother is 18 but will be 19 in July and she will be 17 in December. She recently broke up with her long term boyfriend and my brother swooped in when he saw the chance. She is also a notorious cheater and is manipulative.
They got together recently (or for a while I have no idea) and he was 18 when they got together. They have lied about it to me and my family and only some of her friends and his friends have known and even support it.
So back to last Friday I sent a message to both of them one to my brother telling him to tell me the truth and one to her kinda telling her how messed up them being together. (happy to add them if people really want to see it) they both read my message and never responded and at home my brother has been avoiding me and giving me the cold shoulder and she has told all her friends that I’m some asshole for telling her how disgusting this relationship was. I sat over the weekend and calmed down but now I feel like I’ve messed up my relationship with my brother (I have no urge to countine my friendship with her after other things she has done) when all I’m trying to do is protect him because he’s going to this amazing college and wants to be teacher and if someone gets mad they could use it against him. So AITAH