u/HeartOnMySleeve4ever

Taking my daughter to West End for 21st birthday. I want her to wow her. My post got removed so I’m writing it again. I was recommended Hadestown before my post got removed.

1. When you are going: Thursday 28th May
2. Where you are visiting (West End or regional) an where you're coming from West End coming from Southern England
3. How long you are here: 2 days from 27th/28th
4. Who you are going with: Me and my Daughter
5. Shows you have liked and disliked

Loved: Hamilton, Oliver, Dear Evan Hansen, Clueless, Wicked, Matilda, The Bodyguard, Legally Blonde, Secret Cinema Grease, Benjamin Button
Disliked: No musicals I disliked.

I want to take my daughter to a musical next week. Which one for a really ‘wow’ memorable experience for her? Please help!!! Need to get this sorted ASAP!!! I want her to have a really lovely time. Want to go Thursday 28th May in the West End. What’s best to see right now that 21 year old would love?

I’ve been wanting to bring up a fantasy in bed but I get worried about the response I might get and then don’t.

I love fantasising about bringing another woman to my boyfriend and imagining how he’d react and how we would both play with her and how turned on we’d both get and I’d love to see him get really excited and I’d love to watch them together.

It would really turn me on to talk about this stuff with him but I don’t know if it will make him question my sexuality and make him worry or he might love it.

He’s mentioned imagining seeing me with other men and what he’d like me to do and it would turn him on so he’s definitely open to chatting about this stuff but I don’t know how he’d feel about me talking about another woman. I feel a bit shy about this but it’s something I’d love to have fun talking about. Don’t know how to approach it without bailing at the last second. We’ve both got high sex drives and being able to be open about this particular thing would be so exciting for me and might possibly be a turn on for him too.

Edited to add: I can’t seem to reply to individual comments, Reddit won’t let me and I’m not sure what I’ve done wrong.

Wanted to clarify this is just wanting fantasy talk in bed because it’s a very sexy idea to me and gets me sexually excited and would easily tip me over the edge. While it might be fun in the moment sexually to do it in real life, in reality I know it would most likely wreck the relationship and cause all sorts of issues with jealousy etc. So would love loads more fantasy talk and imaginary scenarios to get us both going, it was very, very exciting for me when he was saying what he’d like.