u/Heavy-Spinach-336

I have been married for 3 years and sex/intimacy of any kind has just never clicked. We have done therapy and had many conversations with each other and others to try to get to the root cause and come to an agreement on intimacy but it has just never improved only gotten worse. She only ever does anything out of obligation, whether that be cuddling or even and emotional heart to heart. I just feel undesired most of the time. We get along and even have fun together but I just feel this need that doesn’t get satisfied. I would appreciate any thoughts you have now, I feel like I’m coming to the end of what I know to do or have the ability to do in my marriage.

I apologize in advance this is my first time posting so have mercy on me.