should i tell my bf about pregnancy+abortion?
I think the "right thing" to do is to tell him but idk how right that really is
We've talked about It before and we both agreed that if i got pregnant any time soon i should get an abortion. He says his biggest dream is to be a father but his worst nightmare is to be a teen dad (we're both 17), we had a pregnancy scare before and he couldnt even sleep properly for weeks, he was always stressed out and even cried out of fear.
He's got his university entrance exam in around two weeks and i dont wanna f*ck It up for him, but i also dont wanna wait that much to tell him and proceed with abortion because
-hes got a trip a couple days after so it's a whole week trying to asimilate It without each other
-im bearly a few weeks pregnant and i HATE It, cant imagine how hard it will be by then)
-the more i wait, the more physical changes even after terminating
-its gonna be so suspicious
our whole relationship is based of trust, but on the other hand i feel like id just be putting unnecesary stress on him. idk what to do