u/HelloFromThatSiide

Apologies if my question is straight up just stupid. I’m a guy and I’m looking to start therapy to go over some issues that I have, primarily related to my marriage. She has quite a few Issues with me which I acknowledge, but I do not know if she’s crossing any lines at this point. Should I go for a female therapist who would help me understand the female perspective better or go for a male therapist who better understands the struggles of a man? Or is my question completely irrelevant when it comes to therapy in general?

Apologies if my question is straight up just stupid. I’m a guy and I’m looking to start therapy to go over some issues that I have, primarily related to my marriage. She has quite a few Issues with me which I acknowledge, but I do not know if she’s crossing any lines at this point. Should I go for a female therapist who would help me understand the female perspective better or go for a male therapist who better understands the struggles of a man? Or is my question completely irrelevant when it comes to therapy in general?