u/HelpNeededASAP4Uni

Need advice BEFORE MAY 1st!!!
I got into my top school (Boston University) but after receiving their financial aid offer I am unable to afford to go. I am completely heartbroken and am looking for suggestions on how to make it work.
I am short about $30k for the first year. After this I hope to reapply for financial aid and receive more… I already have an older brother in college and a younger sibling who will be going to college as well so my family really can’t afford the $100k a year. Because of my AP’s I should be able to graduate a year early.
Other than scholarships and being an RA my junior year how else should I budget? I really don’t want to take out student loans but I am open to all suggestions!! I have a job lined up for the summer but I could get another. PLEASE HELP!